Mateo is 16!

Our beautiful son, Mateo, is 16. He has brought so much joy into our lives, and for me, in addition, so much insight and inspiration. He’s a deep thinker, this one, and I’m grateful every minute to be his mother. Happy birthday, Mateo!

Essay about open international adoption

One more (final) meditation for Adoption Awareness Month, celebrated annually in November. This one’s about open international adoption–why we decided to look for and reconnect with our kids’ birth mothers and where we are now, 10 years into our reunions. Thank you to Lori Holden for her long-time advocacy of open adoption and for including […]

#30 Portraits in 30 Days

November is National Adoption Awareness Month and I’m honored to have my essay included in Chicago Now’s 10th annual “30 Adoption Portraits in 30 Days.” The title says it all– “Adoption is the Most Complicated Relationship I’ve Ever Been Involved In”–and I’ve been in a few complicated relationships. Thank you to Carrie Goldman for publishing […]

Book Talk Friday October 30 at 2 pm Pacific time

This Friday, October 30, I’ll be zoom-chatting about my novel, Mother Mother, with Larkspur Library librarian Franklin Escobedo. Time is 2 to 3 pm Pacific Time. Registration is required via the Eventbrite link here; admission is free. A nice distraction in these distraction-filled days. Hope you can join us! Eventbrite link

Review of Mother Mother on “Adoptees With Guatemalan Roots”

I’m proud to share this review of Mother Mother posted on “Adoptees With Guatemalan Roots.” As someone in my family said, after listening to me read it aloud, “This review makes me want to read the book more than a review in The New York Times.” (Although, okay, I’d take that, too.) Benjamin Fossen writes: […]