July 2020

July 2019

My phone reminded me where we were last July: in Guatemala, visiting Olivia’s family, traveling to Lake Atitlan, studying Spanish. Remembering those happy days.

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My book is becoming real.

The cover of Mother Mother is a detail of the painting “Nahuala” by Hugo Ayala.

This arrived. The Advance Reading Copy of my first novel, Mother Mother. The cover is a detail from Hugo Ayala’s painting “Nahuala,” bought in Antigua, Guatemala and hanging in my living room. I’m grateful to my many mentors, teachers, fellow writers, and beta readers whose insights made the book better. Mother Mother is available now for preorder on Amazon, Indie Bound, and Barnes & Noble. Publication date is October 1.

I hope you like it! xoxo

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Another adoptee in danger of deportation

Image courtesy of the Trimble family

A Woman Without a Country: Adopted at Birth and Deportable at 30” is a must-read. The New York Times story is beyond belief except that cases such as these are true, and too common. From the article:

It was on the eve of getting married in 2012 that [Ms. Trimble] realized there was something amiss in her all-American upbringing. Adopted as an infant from Mexico, she discovered that what she thought was a minor mix-up in her paperwork was something else entirely. Eventually, she realized that not only was she not American, she did not, in the government’s view, belong in the United States at all.

This year, a letter from U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services arrived in the remote corner of western Alaska where Ms. Trimble cooks for homeless people and where her husband, John, is the only dentist in town.

“You are not authorized to remain in the United States,” it said, ordering her to depart the country within 33 days or face deportation.”

July 7, 2020 New York Times, by Miriam Jordan

Rebecca Trimble’s adoptive parents may not have understood the rules when they crossed the Mexican border with their three-day-old baby 30 years ago, but we do.

We adoptive parents are responsible to make sure our kids are legal US citizens. Check your files. Ensure you have a Certificate of Citizenship with your child’s correct name on it. A COC is the only irrefutable, non-expiring proof of US citizenship.

According to the Adoptee Rights Campaign, “at least 35,000 people in the United States lack American citizenship because their adoptive parents failed to secure it for them.”

This story is tragic.

Link to US Department of State for COC requirements.

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